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  • Welcome to The Style Corner!

    Our doors are open today, June 8th 2011!

    We are the sister website of ThePerfectVenue.com. We bring you the latest and hottest local and destination weddings from coast to coast. We’re here to spark inspiration and help shape your vision to achieve your perfect wedding.

    After you choose your wedding venue from ThePerfectVenue.com, come hang out at The Style Corner for fun and great ideas!

    Today we open with only one real wedding feature. Why only one? We've struggled with this decision quite a bit. While we have tons of weddings to share, we want you to come back weekly on Wednesdays to check the latest and greatest.

    But no worries, because we kick off the site with a spectacular vintage outdoor farm wedding. Thanks for visiting and enjoy!

Kristy & Doug’s Little Tokyo Wedding in LA

undefinedOne hundred and fifty guests touched down in LA from all over the world to celebrate the marriage of Kristy and Doug on July 24, 2010. The couple, who lived in Florida during their engagement,  had their work cut out for them planning an LA wedding, but they had a vision in mind and their hard work paid off! The end result was an aesthetically clean, down-to-earth, personalized celebration featuring many unique DIY projects!undefinedWhere exactly did you get married and why was that the perfect venue for you two as a couple? Our wedding was held at the Grand Kyoto Hotel in Downtown Los Angeles.  We picked this venue because it provided us a beautiful space outdoors for the reception and was centrally located to various attractions for our guests. We love that your husband and groomsmen wore flip-flops. Tell us about that decision to go against tradition and chose a more comfortable shoe. My husband was totally thinking about comfort, and was his idea.  It represents him (and all his groomsmen) who are all laid back.  Even though our wedding wasn’t held at the beach, we also thought it looked nice with the casual suits they wore. undefinedIn what ways were you able to personalize the wedding to be reflective of you two as a couple? The hotel is located in Little Tokyo in Downtown LA, and has a lot of Japanese elements (the décor and the outside reception was held at their Japanese gardens).  This was perfect to represent my Japanese ancestry. We also had a mutual friend of ours be the DJ. He played such awesome music.  He really listened to what we wanted (no cheesy Chicken Dance or the Macarena) and played hip-hop, Beatles, salsa and merengue (for my Peruvian family). My aunts also did the flower arrangements because she owned a flower shop in Peru.  She did the centerpieces, bouquets, and boutonnières. undefined We saw a great picture of a little sack with “love is the spice of life” written on it. Tell us about this shot. Those were our favors!  We included red chili spice inside, along with two recipes.  The red chili is a popular spice in New Mexico, where we started our new married life.  We got the idea of the burlap sack from a wedding blog.  It took a lot of friends to help with the stamping, changing ribbons, and packing the spice of chili. It looks like in lieu of a guest book, you had your guests write on something else. What was it and how did that idea come to be? We had our guests sign a wooden plank, which my husband wanted to turn into a bench (which is yet to be finished, haha!)  We got the idea from a wedding blog and thought it would be cool to have that bench at our new apartment in NM. undefinedAny advice for brides and grooms-to-be? Our advice would be to make your decisions as a couple, and not rely on one person to do all the legwork.  We heard from other couples that planning their wedding wasn’t enjoyable, and it was driving them crazy.  We did have our stressful moments, but we compromised a lot on things that were important to us.  Working with our limited budget, we found ways on where to skimp, like asking my aunt to do the flower arrangements, and having our friend DJ the wedding.  We also agreed that we wanted to splurge on hiring an awesome photographer who would capture those special moments. undefinedVendors

Photographer: Michael Andrews Photography

Venue: Kyoto Grand Hotel

Dress: Pronovias, purchased at Love Bridal

Make up: Darcy Maeda Manning

Maid of Honor Dress: David’s Bridal

Cake: King’s Hawaiian Bakery

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Sanjukta & Mark’s Interfaith Destination Wedding

A breathtaking mansion nestled in rural New England sits on ten acres of lake front property. Sanjukta and Mark brought 100 of their closest family and friends to this gorgeous estate for the entire weekend of 10-10-10 so they could tie the knot and celebrate! Their interfaith ceremony seamlessly blended aspects of traditional American and Hindu weddings to be reflective of who they are as a couple. With guests flying in from all over, including India and Barbados, this couple’s wedding was relaxed, down to earth, and of course, celebratory. Wait ’til you see their rich photos…

undefinedHow did you two meet? How was the planning process when it came to the wedding?

Mark and I have known each other for a long time before we decided to get married. We were really good friends and have shared many experiences together for many phases of our lives and felt that it was time that we finally made it official.

The planning of the wedding was hectic given Mark and I wanted a small, personalized wedding. My (bride’s) parents wanted a huge affair though. We finally made a compromise and decided to have our closest friends and family at the wedding. I was very thankful to my parents who helped me plan a lot of it as I didn’t have a lot of time to look into the details of a Hindu wedding such as getting the priest who would marry us and all the details that surrounded the ceremony. We decided to get married around February of 2010 and thought that the date 10-10-10 would be really cool and that’s how everything started.

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How did you know Mansion in the Woods was the perfect place for you two to get married?

We wanted the wedding to be in New England but also have a destination wedding sort of feel. When we looked at the website for the Mansion in the Woods, it was perfect. We could rent out the place for a whole weekend and have our family and friends join us for the whole event. The mansion is also right on a lake, which made it a very scenic location and perfect for our wedding. We were able to enjoy our family for a longer time than the usually allocated 6 hours that flies by in no time. I will cherish that weekend always.  Perhaps we can go back for a reunion someday!

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We wanted to combine aspects of Hindu and American weddings. A lot of the ceremony was Hindu – however mostly focused on the 7 vows of marriage. We also incorporated traditions such as bridesmaids (my sister and cousin) and a wedding cake (traditionally American and not a part of Hindu weddings) into our wedding.

Also, the location was just perfect – and we had the entire weekend to focus on our family and friends, which is what makes weddings so much fun. Many of my relatives were from out of the country (India, Barbados) and I was able to actually spend some time with them.

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There is a beautiful photo of the ceremony where you two are accompanied by three other people and you’re holding your hands to your heads- can you tell us more about this photo? Who were the people with you? What food etc. was in front of you and what did it symbolize?

There are actually a few pictures of people holding the hands on our heads. They are essentially blessing us to begin our lives together. Traditionally they are the elders of the family – comprised of my parents, Mark’s Uncle, Aunt. There were also other friends and family who joined in the process of blessing us. This happens after we have taken seven rounds around the fire. Each round represents a wedding vow to one another:

Saptapardi (Seven Steps Together)
The bride and groom walk seven steps together to signify the beginning of their journey through life together. Each step represents a marital vow:

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First step: To respect and honor each other
Second step: To share each other’s joy and sorrow
Third step: To trust and be loyal to each other
Fourth step: To cultivate appreciation for knowledge, values, sacrifice and service
Fifth step: To reconfirm their vow of purity, love family duties and spiritual growth
Sixth step: To follow principles of Dharma (righteousness)

Seventh step: To nurture an eternal bond of friendship and love

In terms of all the food that was in front of us – I have no idea what they symbolize – there are so many things. We get married traditionally in the fire (agni). The couple invokes Agni, the god of Fire, to witness their commitment to each other. Crushed sandalwood, herbs, sugar rice and oil are offered to the ceremonial fire.

It looks like the you changed outfits. Is this tradition? How are the colors chosen?

Traditionally in Hindu weddings, red is an auspicious color – so the bride usually wears colors close to red. I wore a magenta sari. This was my mother’s wedding sari and it was very emotional and privilege to be wearing it at my wedding. After the wedding we had a little reception – so I changed outfits. Here you can wear really anything you want. I chose to wear an aquamarine sequenced lehenga (skirt and blouse combination with a scarf that goes around). Ironically, compared to American weddings, white is not worn as widows typically wear white in Hindu culture.

undefinedWhat advice would you give to couples from two different cultures that want to incorporate elements from both cultures into their wedding?

I would say to couples that don’t sweat the little things. However focus on the grand picture – on things that are important to you as a couple that you’ll remember forever. It is possible to incorporate both cultures. To us, time spent with our families was our main focus. We had the opportunity to really mingle with everyone personally and will remember the time at our wedding forever. We did not compromise on the wedding location, and food. Nobody remembers the details like the flowers or the trinkets you give out at the end of the wedding – so yeah focus on the big things that are important to you both and stick to it.

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What was your favorite part of the wedding celebration?

Our favorite part of the wedding was that it was a casual atmosphere (a whole weekend) that we got to spend with the people who are the most important in our lives and really enjoy time together. It was relaxed, unrushed, and beautiful. It was perfect.

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Vendors

Venue: Mansion in the Woods
Photographer: Sarah Kang
Cake: Icing on the Cake

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Danya & Mike @ Ocean House in Watch Hill, Rhode Island

undefinedIf there’s one thing Dayna and Mike learned from planning their October wedding it’s that when life hands you lemons a natural disaster, you make lemonade other plans so your wedding can go on. That’s right- pretty much every bride’s nightmare came true: their venue was forced to close its doors permanently due to flooding.  They didn’t dwell on the fact that their invitations had already gone out, nor that the vendors’ deposits had been paid. Instead, they thought outside the box and managed to rearrange plans and create their dream wedding: romantic, traditional-with-a-twist, elegant without airs. We love their positivity!

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undefined Why was Ocean House the perfect venue for you two?

Anyone that has been to the Ocean House knows that it is breathtakingly gorgeous. We loved everything about it and most importantly it had the right feel – very classy and elegant but with the comfortable and intimate atmosphere that we wanted. We got married in the drawing room after immediately falling in love with the old style architecture, ocean views and intimacy of this room. The Seaside ballroom was perfect for the reception, leading out to a huge verandah overlooking the ocean with couches, a path to the beach and an outdoor bar that our guests enjoyed all afternoon.

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undefinedundefinedIt looks like the party moved from the Ocean House to a bar. Can you tell us about that? We love the picture of the cute cocktail names!

We had the ceremony and traditional reception until about 3:30pm. Then our guests went back to the nearby hotel for a few hours to relax by the water. The break was also a nice time for my husband and I to take a breather since we stayed at the Ocean House separate from the other guests. Our photographer came back at that time to take pictures of us on the Ocean House property during sunset. It was one of my favorite moments from the day. That evening we had a trolley shuttle pick up the guests and bring everyone to our favorite bar, Perks and Corks in downtown Westerly that we rented out and made ours for the evening. We brought our own playlist of music and featured our favorite drinks named after us. My family always drinks out of porrons (a Spanish drinking vessel…although I’m not Spanish, ha!) So my father made a toast to us and everyone had a blast drinking form them all night! It was a great end to a wonderful day and gave us more time to spend with our guests.

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What were some of the ways you were able to personalize the wedding?

It was really important to Mike and I to incorporate a lot of meaning and thought in everything we did. We wanted to honor our families, both those who were there in person and those that had passed away. I put charms that my late grandfather gave me on my bouquet so he would be with me all day and my mother made the ring bearer’s pillow using a square of lace my great grandmother had crocheted. My father is a lieutenant fireman and I asked him to wear his dress uniform to walk me down the aisle since I feel so proud when he wears that suit. Mike’s mother is a very talented baker and she made our wedding cake along with mini wedding cake centerpieces for some of the tables (everyone that knows me knows I love miniature things). We also wanted to add some fun elements that we enjoy like a cigar roller for cocktail hour, Bloody Mary’s, a photo booth set up by our photographer, and a picture of our dog on our sweetheart table.

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Any advice for brides-to-be planning their weddings?

Although the planning process can be really emotional and tough at times, try to think positively. On the big day, enjoy yourself and reap the benefits of all your hard work, you deserve it. Also, make lists and itineraries and give them to your bridal party and vendors ahead of time.

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Venue: Ocean House, Watch Hill, RI
Photographer: Joshua Behan Photography, Westerly, RI
Flowers: Rosanna’s Flowers, Westerly, RI
Hair and Makeup: Bella Vita Salon and Spa, Westerly, RI
Cigar Roller: Boston Cigar Factory, Boston, MA
Music: 5 star events, Boston, MA
Transportation: Newport Trolley, Newport, RI
After Party Venue: Perks and Corks, Westerly, RI

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Katie & Mike @ Hyatt Lodge Oak Brook IL

undefinedCasual elegance reigned at the Hyatt Lodge Oak Brook on September 18, 2010 as 180 guests joined in celebrating the union of Katie and Mike. As the Grand Oaks Pavilion room looked out into a forest, bringing outdoor elements inside became a theme the couple achieved through a lush color palate of purples and greens with accents of pink. Rich eggplant linens and fruitwood chivari chairs complimented the color palate, and oak tree branch tabletop décor gave the reception room an effortless, natural finish. Unexpected weather and last minute changes didn’t deter this couple from enjoying every aspect of their big day which just goes to show you that often times things just fall perfectly into place, as if they were meant to be.

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undefined Notes from the bride:

We choose our wedding date out of three others because the likelihood of bad weather was the smallest on that day (we actually looked up weather stats!).  Sure enough, it poured.  But the day was perfect and the rain was gone by the time we left for the ceremony.

undefinedundefinedI had dreamed of my wedding since I was young, so I took the reigns on a lot of the planning. Mike had a lot of input, but I think he soon realized that he should pretty much agree with me and no one gets hurt!  I also changed my mind a lot during the planning process!  We started out having light pink, white and green as our colors and two weeks before the wedding, they ended up dark pinks, purples, and greens.  I started out wanting nothing put peonies, but soon wised up when every florist told me they don’t exist in September.  It just goes to show you that what you initially think the wedding will look like isn’t necessarily what it ends up as!

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My husband and I met at University of Illinois.  UofI runs deep in our friends and family – we estimate that around ½ of the wedding went to UofI! 

undefined I have dreamed about my wedding dress since I was 10!  I literally bought bridal magazines at the bookstore since I was 16 years old to look at dresses.  My dress was in my top three most important aspects of the wedding (next to venue and photographer).  I went to my first appointment wanting a huge, poofy ballgown and quickly learned that what I thought I wanted wasn’t what looked good on me.  Our third stop was Vwindon, a husband and wife local design team.  My “entourage” of maid of honor, mom and aunt picked out a dress that I would never have given a second thought to. I only tried it on “to get it over with” before trying on my own choices.  I came out of the dressing room in tears and knew it was the one.

undefined Advice for brides-to-be?

Get a wedding coordinator and once the wedding day comes, there is nothing you can do about whatever is going to happen, so just sit back and enjoy the ride.  It was such a relief to have our coordinator around all day to make sure everything was perfect.  I didn’t worry about anything (besides the weather and our lack of umbrellas) and knowing he was there to take care of whatever might come up was such a comfort.  Once we left for the ceremony, I just went with it and didn’t let myself stress about if something was out of place or something was forgotten.  The day goes by so fast. It doesn’t do justice to the day if you spend it worrying about what people would think or if the centerpieces are going to look like what you want them to look like. 

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Jennifer & Andrew’s Vintage Inspired Farm Wedding

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On a beautiful September day in 2010, two hundred guests perched atop hay bale pews watched as Jennifer walked down the aisle on her family horse farm towards Andrew, her adoring groom.  Both with backgrounds in design and with a relationship deeply rooted in faith, Jennifer and Andrew created an aesthetically pleasing locale complimented by statements of their faith. A true feast for the eyes, this vintage-inspired country wedding takes our breath away.

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We love that you did things differently when it came to your wedding- the cowboy boots, the soup instead of a receiving line… can you elaborate on those two things and tell us any other ways you were able to personalize your wedding?

Any horse person knows that boots are mandatory when riding and doing chores so it only made sense for me to kick-it on my wedding day wearing a pair! (Plus, I probably would have rolled my ankle wearing heals on the lawn.)

undefinedundefinedAs far as the bride and groom serving the soup to their guests? Typically, the newly married couple are the very first people to be served dinner at a celebration. However, Andrew and I wanted to make a statement about our faith and how that has shaped our perspective on life. Jesus was a man who put others before himself, and we thought by serving our guests in this small (but fun!) way, we could illustrate the character of this man who inspires our every day. Plus, it ended up as great alternative to the traditional receiving line, and I got to make a fool of myself! The soup didn’t always make it into the bread bowl…

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undefined What were the most important aspects when it came to planning your wedding?

Definitely assuring that the day would reflect Andrew and I, and the deep faith that has grounded our relationship. Otherwise, we wanted to have a unique wedding and break some rules of tradition (this reflects our rebellious nature – only teasing.) As creative people, we see things rather unconventionally at times, and we wanted to have a hay day while planning the biggest party of our lives! So we did.

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Any advice for brides-to-be?

Absolutely… ELOPE!!! Only joking. In all honesty, just realize that this day is going to go by so fast that any stress over mishaps and drama will seem petty. Remember that this day is about you and your best friend making a life-long commitment to each other; so don’t let the trivial things get in your way. Stay true to one another and remember to have FUN! Your friends and family are simply excited to celebrate with you, so don’t worry if the napkins don’t match perfectly.

Also, Brides… DON’T do your own flowers, or you will be up until 1 a.m. the night before making your bouquet. I learned this one the hard way;)

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VENDORS 

Photographer: Shelley Paulson
Happy Hour Catering: Leah Anderson
Dinner Catering: Country Side Cafe
Wedding Cake: Andrew Epperson of Catwalk Cakes
Other Desserts: Homemade by amazing friends
Flowers: Jennifer Beckman (the bride) of Tussie Mussie Artistry
Invitations: Andrew and Jennifer Beckman
Dress: The Wedding Shoppe Minneapolis, MN
Bridesmaid Dresses: Designed and made by Jennifer Beckman

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